IN BLACK AND WHITE last---past---next---now ( FEATURED OTHERS 'n STUFF ) MEG AND DIA! ORLANDO? WHERE IT BEGAN ARE THEY SERIOUS? (how far are we from censorship?) ONE. . . WHY (find your social conscience)
CONVERSATION WITH GOD MEANING OF LIFE FORWARD THIS ENTRY INTELLIGENT DESIGN (SEE WHAT THE POPE SAYS) o O ( AND COMING SOON! ) O o ABOUT ZOOPLA o O ( AND CURRENT EVENTS ) O o blogadvance blogazoo blogexplosion blogmad? bloglines o O ( SOCIAL CONCERNS ) O o HELP THE RED CROSS MESSAGES FROM MISSISSIPPI BLOG FOR RELIEF NEW ORLEANS JOURNAL (MIRROR OF N.O. JOURNAL) (INCLUDING LIVE CAM AND PHOTOS) HELP AND BE HELPED HURRICANE HOUSING LINKS TO HELP IMAGES FOR HISTORY New Orleans News Buloxi News THE FAILURE FREE SPEECH (tell them what you think) The White House (202) 456-1111 Senate and Congress (202) 224-3121 YOU'VE GOT THE RIGHTS USE THEM FAT MAN WALKING BLOGATHON! INDEX BEGIN FACE FUN! last---past---next---now SITES I SEE A LOT IxQuick Search Google Search itools references movie database Giga-Quotes Harry Chapin Lyrics SSA OLD AND NEW READS (WISH I HAD MORE TIME TO READ and EXPLORE) mother jones utne reader common dreams the progressive mediate the other side orion harper's rolling stone reel classics fallout shelter the memory hole song meanings truth out wil wheaton bugmenot global news matrix break for news are you generic? neil gaiman h2g2 daily kos the truth laid bear reason capitol hill blue boing boing nobody here SITES I AM CONSIDERING SEEING MORE OFTEN 3Hive metafilter comics digg REFERENCE LIBRARIES questia wikipedia gutenberg internet public library deep web search engines itools references movie database Giga-Quotes rare-lyrics all musicals AMUSEMENTS Diaryland Times home star runner hell hell too sinfest ill will press the guide purple despair maximum awesome 86 the onions straight dope something awful glossy news eric conveys emotion odd todd cracked CULTURE the superficial darwin awards this is true urban legends news of the weird church of the fsm the onion god checker faqs fark iGod post secret webby awards meetup the white house ragged trousered philosopher the smoking gun the defective yeti landover baptist evil bible COMMERCIAL CRAP (AND PRON)
PROMPTS (IF YOU KNOW ONE LET ME KNOW) Unconscious Mutterings Friday Feast Wednesday Whatevers Sunday Brunch Monday Madness Thursday Threesom Saturday Questions (make it real) PO BOX 780398 Orlando, FL 32878 send me some music your favorite music old or new blissful or blue let your message come through and I will love you forever last---past---next---now �2006 Candor Communications |
2005-06-03 - 11:28 a.m. conversations lala3 > But at the music festival you just didn't seem too me too (and I laugh as I think and wonder what we did talk about... the festival, perhaps... your place, I remember thanking you for the amazing generosity (and yes, it is amazing in this world of scared, misery, shut down people) to open your land and home for such an party... and the quiet little space behind the barn under the stars is an enchanting memory from that weekend... I'm not sure what else we talked about, but thanks again)... I was thrilled to be asked for my email and number... it was a perfect end to a wonderful weekend (and rather hot sweaty muscle testing day of work breaking down the stages and such)... brief as it was, memory tells me that I found a friend and more important, that the kids inside of us found reason to bounce up and down and cheer the world some more because... well, I feel like it was/is ok to come out and play with you without the usual constrictions of 'what should I say' or 'are you going to hurt me'... I like you... >I talk to people all day I used to with friends... I've never had family I considered family... adopted a couple of times, minimal bonding, though they were not cruel, just insensitive, shallow, insecure, and very typical suburban working folk who judged everything based on what the neighbors might say... and closest friends I once had drifted far and wide, mostly due to my withdrawal first into a blissful family unit and then into a dumb 'not knowing what to say' phase... I stopped trusting words as a means of communication because that's how the relationship started... and as I said, I lost myself in working a zillion hours a week (picking up from zero takes a lot of work)... I live with my best friend and his 16 year old daughter (who's like my own in my mind) and probably talk to her more than anyone else about serious things (mostly because she brings her questions and life to me first and I try to be wise and helpful)... he works around seventy hours a week (also night shift) and sleeps a lot... I'm not quite a desperate lonely old man, but I sure do see that road out there and shall do my best to follow another... > I tried eharmony for three months, just so I would I have an eharmony profile too, if it's still there... I didn't pay for the service and have not used it, but one introspective evening sat and answered all the questions hoping something good would come of it... I think it's under candor, which is my last name... >It seemed fairly uh-oh, maybe I should not send this email since it's all about me (but how else to let you know me?... I trust you will stick around long enough to see for yourself that after the initial outpouring of self relating rambling I'm not quite as self-centered as my rambling might make me appear... and I do want you to know me and like me for who I am... no worries, no editing shall happen... in fact, I hope you enjoy the typos (may the typos amuse more than confuse)... I usually love the slips of the fingers for the amusements they often provide... but if you are really ansy about occasional mispellings and grammar and such, well, I'll do my best to find time to review the words but that'll mean a lot less words... your choice... I read your words above and find the same thoughts in the autobiographic files in my head... I like that... healthy, yes, I am determined to get back to running (used to run marathons) and drop the extra thirty (forty?) pounds I've gained since starting night shift a few years ago... for the past eight months or so I take a high blood pressure pill once a day, Diovan HTC (or is that HCT?.... the latter sounds right), which I personally thinks sucks... I think that my 135/90 would have adjusted itself if I dropped the weight I gained, but after not dropping it for a year I decided to give in to my doctor's advice... she's very nice and I don't mean to argue, but I dislike taking pills, rarely will, sorry doc... what else has this body gone through?... I've also passed a few kidney stones (ouch)... they seem to come every ten years, 1980, 1990, 2000... I shall do my best to remember to drink even more water than I do in 2010... otherwise, my colonoscopy was clear and my cardiostress test was good (the cardiologist walked out telling me I was wasting his time... some bedside manner, huh?)... yes, the word popularity has negative connotations, but it's still a good feeling if it's not the shallow wanna-be hangers-on type of popularity... I love attention, but I prefer meaningful attention so I'll happilly take being popular with a few good friends over stage popularity... and there, dashed, go the dreams of being Elvis... >I got like I said, or should have, men are stupid... physically I am attracted to fitness because laziness and unhealthiness do not appeal to me... I am not comfortable in my own body when I feel bloated and lately (temporarily, I hope) I've felt I've been neglecting my body... I think self-love is essential for comfort and loving others and my insecurity (yes, I do have some, is that ok? lam) rises when I am feeling less physically fit, active, agile, flexible, confident... if I run up to your place this weekend, by the time I get there I should have dropped the excess baggage around my waist and be feeling great... but then, maybe I should start with a few miles before I tackle another marathon, aye?... I confess, I love food... chocolate is my nirvana (yes, I still do drugs... chocolate and occasionally caffiene and by default, sugar... working night shift, at first, raised my caffiene intact substantially, but I now usually only have a sugar drink on weekends {or at great music festivals or parties} and mostly drink water most of the time... I love water too)... as for my chocolate jones, I can quit anytime, really I can... I also love Italian foods, melted cheeses, and Chinese foods, and seafoods, and... once upon a time I was a vegetarian, a Vegan, even... a year of Vegan, several years of vegetarian, and many years of quasi-vegetarian... I never craved meat like most Americans seem to... didn't like meat or fish at all as a young child, except cheesburgers and hot dogs, but with more bread and cheese than meat... and lots of ketchup... am I rambling on about myself again? there have been times in this life when I've had a lot more self-discipline that I do lately... times when I'd run daily and actually consciously balance my diet... I could (and feel I should) easily slide back into those habits again and I will when I feel motivated to enough... obviously, since I am rambling on about this, it's a bubble rising to the surface of my daily consciousness... wanna be a personal trainer?... I know, it's up to me... shhhh, I can shirk a little, right?... >regarding I so agree... and I have lots more to say (and ask) but I just noticed that I must be at work in a half hour and I have not showered or eaten or even gone to the bathroom in four or five hours and it's all your fault (naa naaa, you're it)... when I say "feel guilty, feel very guilty" you should laugh a lot... unless you want to mock a little guilt and play along for a moment, of course... I mean, we need some drama now and then... unless, of course, you want me to be serious all the time and then I promise I won't tease any more... intimacy requires more time than we have left now... as do the rest of your words... so I shall be completely selfish and send this all-about-me portion of this response and you can call me to chastize me if you like (I'd like, but I won't tell you cuz that might spoil a good chastizement)... I am having fun, I can only hope you're still awake... ok, seriously, I shall do my best to respond to the rest tomorrow and hope you are still happy that you asked for my email address... somebody's got to, after all... well, I tried seriously... I'm going to pause now before I get too giddy and make myself late for work... may this night be a beautiful night full of life and love and fun for you and all who share it with you... and that I mean most seriously... the rest shall follow...
** and the afterthought please: ah, but how much do you know and how much do you let yourself know?... these are the questions.being or not being the afterthoughts for all of us to ponder now and then... *** and this is the point, like it or not, get it or not, believe it or not... and why most conversations (and relationships) come to an end, if they do... because few get it, fewer believe it, and I've yet to meet one who actually likes it in practical reality, even if they get it, believe it, and like it in theory... **** I left this explanation in, even though I eliminated most, if not all of the smiley faces from this conversation when I put them in these entries, because if we ever exchange letters or emails, you might like to know the difference between the smiley faces as I use them...
< last one < < < < BURP! > > > >next one > |
. . . . . the moment we interrupt these seemingly mindless dots for a word from (or at least about our sponsor (hmmm, sponsor?... what's the opposite of sponsor?)... anyway, now, as ado-less as possible, the word for you or andrew)... connections . . . . AND WHATDYA MISS? Can You Laugh At The Sky? DSandDrew It's Been A While Just a Moment (Proof of Mice) A Moment of Forever older still random chance who me? leave a note? (read archived notes) send me mail? you want to know me? soundtrack 101 Things The Sequel The Trilogy 202 Things 200 Things 202 More Things 202 Things Again testing123 have time, love words? sleepwriting (where the heart dreams) and now, in RealTime� and then, (e)thereal and now, briefly, in case it matters and now, the dirt, drama, and details (babbling) DO ME! (Johari Style) DO ME WRONG! (but do me right) SOAP! (EPISODE ONE) (the dark side of candoor) loving linkers other loves A Diaryland Survey other surveys small world your profile matters (search for you & find me) tell others read others applause? favor? gift? get your own! saturn rings and other places googlisms browsing where've ya been? the searchers favorites 911 HEY AMERICA! LOOK AT YOUR CHILD STOP THE ABUSE (GET THE CODE) THOUGHTS ON GOD ( temporary attractions ) BACK TO #1 @ GOOGLE! WAS #1 @ MSN! (for a while, now on page (EXPERIMENTAL PLAYTHINGS) RSS? who links here blogwise Blogarama Globe of Blogs blogthings ~ BLOGLINKERS ~ ~ BLOGROLLING ~ Blogroll Me! published blogadvance blogazoo blogexplosion blogmad? bloglines (PREVIOUS TEMPORARY ATTRACTIONS) TSUNAMI INFO fantasy sports? BLOGGIES? sorry everybody Orange Blossom Music Festival Deland Music Festival MIT Survey brilliant idea Celebrate Birthdays FOR FREEDOM CONTINUE... talking dog SAY HELLO 407-325-1482 and if you want to leave take good care hope you make a lot of true friends out there |