today I have a profile for you... this profile comes from a while back and needs little changing, however I did expound cuz I do that... if you are not interested in my personally and just come here for the babbling nonsense or something else, skip ahead to the next entry... for those of you who've read this before, thanks for sticking around... and if you happen to know anyone who might like me based on the words below, give them my number... now, the profile:

Hi... I hope you are enjoying your time on the web today... I am seeking friends, romance, love, intimacy, and dreams (of course dreams, is that not why we explore these sites?)... first though, and most of all, I am here hoping to find local friends...

talk to me of things that move you, of music, arts, books, movies, and most especially talk to me about your life and interests, your hopes and dreams, your passions and fears, your pains and pleasures, yourself, for I want to know you... I love sharing positive thoughts, feelings, and energy with people... I love sharing catharsis, so tell me not only what inspires your laughter, but also what brings your tears as your sorrow is part of you and welcome too (but please, no long-term pity-parties for they are so self-defeating)... most of all, I seek trust (did I mention I am a dreamer?... ah, but I am a realist as well... unconditional love comes the a moment we open our hearts, but trust takes time for it must be carefully created by sharing experiences)... let's motivate each other to make the positive changes we want to make in our lives and nurture the creativity and beauty inside... let's share what is really important and also share the silliness and fun of life... tell me your story, the whole story, and after you read my answers here you can find out a lot more about me, my imagination, and my story by exploring http://home.att.net/~candor

Experience Online: I've used many other relationship sites. I've been online since the eighties and on the internet since the early nineties, though started spending a lot more time on it in 1996 and since then have always been connected (except for a brief period of transit in the 1997) and usually checked in daily, though in recent months I've been away from the net more than I have since I first started... in the 90s I moderated chat rooms and newsgroups and I created my own email group network (though it is dormant at the moment)... I've always loved writing and the transition from paper, pen, and post office to screen, keyboard, and internet was fun and easy for me after the purist finally accepted (after years of debate) typing instead of pen writing in the 80s...

Location: (USA) Orlando, Florida

friends can be anywhere and all are welcome, though what I seek most is a true friend to play with in the local area (or if you want someone to run around enjoying the theme parks with you, call me when you visit)... I've known long distance romance and it can be a beautiful ache, but for intimacy and love I'd much rather we be in the same physical space, so relocation is an option... personally, if we're relocating, I much prefer warm, even tropical climates.

Special Lifestyle: none

be as you are... what matters most is that you are comfortable with yourself.

Current Relationship: Single

above all else I seek honesty, caring, open hearts and minds, and sharing activities (from sitting and reading together to running a marathon... well, a few miles at least)... you can find out a lot more by visiting my site and checking the personal pages.

Children: 0

this you can ask about after we meet... I love children, have spent much time caring for children... I especially nurture the child in me and I hope you love your inner child too.

Job roles: Executive, Management, Clerical, Creative, Research, Instruction, Student, Physical Labor, Human Interaction, Child Care, Self-Employed, Retired, Publishing

if money is the first thing you want to know about when meeting someone, pass me by... I picked a number to complete my profile... I am not looking to support you, but money is meaningless between true friends... my income level has changed dramatically a few times in this life... I have lived in luxury, I have lived on the street... money is a means, not an end... what we do for money is only important if we do not love it, then, we should seek change... I love what I do, which is most often helping others... at the moment, I care for teens in a psychiatric hospital, but I enjoy many things so I am open to change (I have a resume on my site)... it would be great to share a loved work life with a soul mate or friends... whatever you do, I hope you enjoy it and feel you are doing something good and meaningful with your time.

Attractiveness: Attractive, many call me cute...

Best features: Eyes, Hair, Body Language, Confidence, Voice

I'd improve my: Body Shape/Curves

Body: Average

Height: 177cm (5 feet 10 inches)

Hair: Dark Brown, Long & Curly

Celebrity I Resemble: you tell me, I don't know of any

note that 'attractive' is relative and naturally if you are very attractive to me it's perfect (if perfect is possible) and if you are unattractive to me it's a bad match (and the same goes for you)... I am very attractive to some, and unattractive to others, so a self-rating is meaningless... your self-rating is just as meaningless... I could expound on clich�s like 'beauty is only skin deep' and 'beauty is in the eye of the beholder' but if you don't know that, then you should learn it... honesty, innocence, curiosity, integrity, positivity, hope, intensity, individuality, confidence, intelligence, humor, wisdom, open-mindedness, a giving heart, unconditional love and trust is most attractive to me... appearance is transitory, but awareness shows and what we sense is very important... physically, you can find a list of famous people I find visually attractive on my website (look for Libboland)... what human culture typically calls beauty is not always what I do and as far as what is attractive, that is mostly unexplainable, so be with me if you want to know more...

Skin Tone: Light Tan

what?... they left out red, yellow, and green, among other colors... seriously, I was adopted, so I do not know my biological, ethnic, or before birth history... it helps me be accepting of differences and I like that.

Tattoos: None

Jewelry: None

I am not into permanent body art or mutilations as I am not into pain or harm and prefer natural life to artificial (though androids and aliens are welcome when they get here)... I respect friends choices and welcome anyone compatible, however lots of makeup, jewelry, or any every day costuming is not as attractive to me as the basic naked way you were born.

Religion: honesty, innocence, music, life, love

Belief in spiritual concepts: Enlightenment, ESP, Auras

honesty, innocence (intending and striving to do no harm) is all I ask of myself and you... I'd like to believe there is a connectivity, a basic energy that connects and perhaps makes up all matter in this or any universe... I don't know how consciousness comes into existence or how it is personalized into individual identities or if individual identities continue beyond these physical bodies as we know life, but I'd like to think so... ultimately, it does not matter for all we have is the moment, each moment, and the best we can do is focus all of our energy on experiencing and sharing each moment as much, as honestly, and as harmlessly as possible... I believe in the romantic notion of committing to sharing every moment and everything as much, as honestly, and as harmlessly as possible that reaches into and accepts the unknown, whatever we might call it... I accept not knowing and love learning and do not pretend to know what I do not know... I welcome knowledge and understanding from any source that does not harm or try to control or eliminate other paths to knowledge.

Criminal Law: I believe in self-control... unfortunately, thousands of years of power hungry rulers controlling people have created a human culture expecting others to make decisions and tell people what to do, how to think, and what is 'right' and 'wrong'... I do not know how to change the self-destructive irresponsible ways of humans, I only know I do not want to be part of it so I live my life as best I can outside of the most common social ways of the world... maybe I have given up on living in an enlightened world in this lifetime, but I haven't given up on finding others who understand what I mean and who choose to live as I do.

Government: government is for people who don't know better... government is for people who are afraid to take responsibility for themselves and seek to blame others for their existence, their fears, their ignorance, and their troubles... government is for the lazy, the weak, the corrupt, the greedy, the control freaks, the people who do not believe in equality and sharing the resources of life... government is for the people who want power over others... government is for the people who do not have faith in others, people who believe humans must be told how to live and be... and in taking responsibility out of individual hands, government has allowed people to become irresponsible, unthinking pawns in a game played by the few who achieve power... or... government is the great board game of life, take your pick.

Children: guiding a child through life is a commitment for life starting with being there for them and recognizing them as individual people... giving unconditional love, honesty, understanding, kindness, compassion, hope, and consistency... teaching the same and more, how to trust in themselves and their own senses, ideals, and values... and giving them a model to emulate by being real and the best person I can be.

and there you have it... I am not sure whether this comes from netrelate or cybersoulmate (or whether they were once one and the same site), but those are the links I had stashed in the file with this profile...

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