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2005-06-05 - 11:34 a.m. conversations lala5 >I hope I and I've always wanted to consider 100 middle age... ever read Time Enough For Love by Robert Heinlein?... living forever, or for thousands of years, is appealing to me in many ways and yet, my curiosity about whether there is or is not any consciousness after this life is appealing too (I love unknowns)... and yet, I smile at the challenge of seeing just how many centuries it would take for me to get bored enough or frustrated enough with the follies of humanity before I'd simply want to move on to whatever, even if it's nothingness... I'd like to see what the universe (and intelligent life) is like in a few million years, or billions... and I want to know if the universe as we know it really will end, entropy, atrophy, or whatever physical changes might occur in however long it takes... might be lonely sometimes, but my mind is gleeful with the possibilities... I would truly love to read your books... now where's that other half email... ah yes, there it is, part two of this two part part two letter to you (got it?), and here it is now: >Some of the hey, was that a good segue or what? (completely unplanned, which is an even bigger smile)... and dropping the beat for a moment, death is scary for most people... maybe it is because I never had biological attachments to anyone or maybe it's just my perspective on the unknown, but I do not fear death... I cry over loss, profoundly... and I feel an infinite emptiness when I only come down so that I may go up again... >I wouldn't I feel like I've answered this already (it's an odd feeling borne of being less organized in my writings than I could be), but I find no words stashed anywhere that seem to be part of this response to you, so I shall not fret over the possibility of lost words and continue now... sad is relative... yes, from the perspective of seeing how many children are abused and neglected and left to be very confused, permanently scarred, and possibly permanently "disabled" (physically or mentally) adults, it is a profoundly depressing view of humanity as it is today... and from the perspective of seeing, on a daily basis, how few people truly care to do anything about it, how systems of government neglect and abuse children and waste money intentionally and unintentionally is beyond depressing, it is exhasperating... I believe that if there is any sort of decent existence after this life, many people would be better off moving on... and sometimes I think this world would be better off, on the whole, without some people in it... but those perspectives are not where I live... those perspectives are not even where I work, for I enter that world in my own little bubble of love (because I would not enter that world, intentionally, in any other way) and do the best I can to do the most good until my bubble of love no longer supports my positivity and hopeful perspectives and then I retire from the field for a while... I did it from 78-90 and returned in 2001... though my return is back at the ground floor where the money truly sucks (which limits many aspects of rebuilding a full life), but the rewards are the greatest... my focus remains on the light in a child's eyes, on the moments I can feel that my presense gives that child the sense that someone truly cares and that they are genuinely worth caring about... those moments can (and hopefully will) last a lifetime or longer for that child and just maybe it will help them realize that all the crap, all the abuse, all the betrayals by parents and other adults and the system can be overcome... that all that has happened to her was from the outside, not from her insides... that she lather, rinse, and repeat... that is the rejuvenating experience I seek every day in the madhouse... >I have a friend your beauty just brought a very happy tear to my eye... I think there traps we can all fall into (and most everyone does from time to time, some seem to actually live in theirs) that drain us of energy... perspectives and habits that are imbalanced and leave us with a negative energy flow... the first paragraph about my work (sad is relative) just above contain examples of the traps I could fall into in my daily worklife... another is loneliness (again I remember HArry Chapin's song mentioned above, and another called "A Lot of Lonely People Tonight"... both are tools I use to wake myself up from the path that leads toward depressive stupor... I think we all have weaknesses that can lead down such paths and the key to happiness in this life is either being lucky and avoiding them or somehow learning enough to see them for what they are, mostly a waste of time, and not being afraid of being stuck on them... Harry Chapin, again, has a song called "Changes" that comes to mind... and "Short Stories"... and "A Better Place to Be"... knowing me is knowing Harry's words and music and life... in this life, for me, he's the single most influential person outside of those who actually lived with me in life (maybe more in many ways)... when songs all but demand I sing them, when they become part of and remain vital to my psyche or soul or anima or whatever we shall call that which is the essence of me, I I might be able to say that the balladeer, the singer-songwriter is my favorite genre of music... and yet, I would go nowhere without Pink Floyd ("Welcome to the Machine" {actually "Wish You Were Here"}and Dark Side of the Moon" come to mind first) and so many others and I just realized how far I've digressed from the point of my response and time is not relatively limitless tonight because once again, work is in a couple of hours, so I shall return to responding now and hope, later, to share more music with you, yours, mine, and someday ours (I think songs are some of the best bonds between friends)... where were we?... ah yes, music gets me out of my traps better than anything (probably because it's quickest and least threatening of anything outside of my own head)... reading takes longer, but words are sometimes just as effective... but people, in magic moments and after what feels like infinite time, are the elixor I want and love most because it can go two ways (just for starters) and expand infinitely... I know most of my weaknesses, I think, and embrace them as a fool embraces the jester's crown... and I try to remember that while sucking on a pacifier is comforting (, it interferes with communication and getting on with a wonderful life... >I have always been the me too... is that good or not so good? :] >Sometimes, when everything if nothing else, this I can do... and if this is my only role in your life, I'd happily accept that because everything I sense so far tells me you deserve all the true friendship I can offer... I still trust my instincts unconditionally, in spite of their obvious flaws and past mistakes, and my instincts tell me you are worthy of all I've got... so for all the indecision and confusion I might have about intimacy, I am clear in my mind and sure that you are welcome to listen to Bill Withers and "Lean On Me"... >I can depend on my kids for and all I can do is sigh and smile... I've long accepted the way I was dumped into this world and all the missing experiences... it adds to my uniqueness and I've adjusted to being quite different from the normal human in many fundamental ways... it's lonelier than I want it to be at times, but inner peace requires changing what you can and accepting what is unchangeable (and knowing the difference)... I like my inner peace, so I don't mess with the formula much... I think I appreciate a lot of things that others take quite for granted... I think my experiences (and lack of) enhance my awareness and sensitivity... I think that is my place in this world (so Michael W. Smith's song does not necessarily apply to me)... >My family (other than the kids) is
one of the benefits, if it can be considered a benefit, of not having been close to any family and not having biological family is I have never experienced the loss of a true parent or relative... all of my loses have been emotional deaths of relationships and physical deaths of adopted family... I don't know if it hurts any less, but I don't need to hurt any more than I have already... and life ends in death... so the longer I live, the more inevitible it becomes that I will experience more loss and hurt more... it is the roller coaster that I would not trade for any permanently calm seas (though a nice peaceful cruise, metaphorical or actual, might be a good change of pace once in a while... I hug you and hope your hurts are soothed by good memories and the love that lives inside you that you pass on to others... it's never really gone (suddenly the film "Ghost" comes to mind)... > She is the best person on earth and my sister is wow... the closest experience I got to a big family was high school... I was part of a few very tight groups back then (and foolishly I do not use the emails I have to keep in closer touch with the core of those groups now)... this might sound like a sad thought, but it's more a curious child (cuz I can't really miss what I never really had) - I've always wondered what it would feel like to be unconditionally loved by a whole group of people... > Well, I have to go to bed and you will probably get lol, that is so me... I fall asleep with the laptop on my lap almost every day... and it is not, contrary to appearances, all about avoiding either (sticking my tongue out now)... not that you suggested it might be all by yourself (I helped), of course, but there's some modicum of insight and education, if only for myself, in my ramblings... and maybe some of it might be worth something to someone else one day (ah, the dream of the editor that will find worth in the madness and cut away the blubber to leave lean mean writing machine works of genius... and if that's just ego-dreaming, well, egos are allowed... personally, I don't think any of your writing is crap, but then, I am fast becoming quite biased and that may make my opinion more or less meaningful, depending on perspective... your value to me suddenly increases exponentially with each word I read (and now, hear) from you... my dearest wish is that you are, first and foremost and no matter what else, the true friend I have hoped to find forever... I sense you might be, but I don't want to influence your decision too much (are we laughing at the ceiling now?)... and so now you have the two part twos of the last two emails you sent to me and I can take a breath and ponder the effect you are having on me... it's good, for starters... I sense you're waking me up and probably will confront me with some decisions about myself and what I want and like and don't want and don't like and more... and I sense we're gonna have fun... hope I'm right... on the web... the main gate, the entrance in the signature is the more personal way in (friends come through the back door back door and the window... the window (though the window is in dire need of updating as it's been a few years since I worked on it)... yeah, I know, I am always including links to my sites when trying to introduce myself to someone I hope will be a friend... think there's a message to that?...
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